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Paula Otley

BACP, NCPS

Paula Otley , BACP, NCPS

Therapist in United Kingdom

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About Paula

Paula Otley brings more than 16 years of experience supporting people through loss, beginning with extensive work as a bereavement support volunteer. That early experience shaped her vocational path and informed her compassionate, relational approach to counselling. She trained as an integrative counsellor with a specialism in person-centred and psychodynamic approaches, and in 2020 she incorporated cognitive behavioural therapy training to expand her methods and options for clients.

Paula has worked across a variety of settings including GP practices, the NHS, charities, community counselling services, private practice, and employee assistance programmes. She meets people from all walks of life where they are, developing a collaborative therapeutic alliance that frames the pace and focus of the work. Paula holds BACP and NCPS credentials, reflecting her professional training and commitment to recognised practice standards.

Whether addressing grief, anxiety, relationship challenges, trauma, or other life changes, Paula aims to work alongside each client to find practical, meaningful ways forward, tailoring her integrative approach to individual needs and preferences.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Support

Paula Otley draws on person-centred therapy to create a respectful, non-directive space where clients are met as they are; this approach helps people who need empathy and a steady, accepting presence while they explore personal challenges. Psychodynamic therapy is used to explore patterns, relationships, and unconscious influences that shape feelings and behaviour, which can be especially helpful for long-standing relational and emotional issues. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) provides practical techniques to identify and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviours, often supporting work with anxiety, depression, or stress.

Finding the right therapeutic approach is part of the process, and Paula works collaboratively with each client to determine which methods fit their needs, goals, and preferences. She adapts her integrative practice over time to reflect what is most helpful for the individual.

Online therapy with Paula is available via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, offering flexibility for different schedules and lifestyles. These options make it easier to access consistent support from licensed professionals, to continue therapy during life changes, and to connect across distances, including for international clients.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Paula Otley have?

Paula Otley has 16 years of experience, including long-term work as a bereavement support volunteer.

Is Paula Otley a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds BACP and NCPS credentials.

In which languages does Paula Otley provide therapy?

Paula provides therapy in English.

Where is Paula Otley located?

Paula is located in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with Paula Otley as my therapist?

You can work with Paula through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Paula Otley work with international clients?

Yes, Paula works with international clients.

How much does therapy with Paula Otley cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesGriefSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

16+ years

Licensed

See below

Languages

English

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