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Nicola Murray

BACP

Nicola Murray , BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

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About Nicola

Nicola Murray is a therapist based in the United Kingdom who supports adults facing anxiety, stress, relationship strain, and a wide range of emotional challenges. With six years of clinical experience, she blends practical skill-building with a warm, collaborative approach to help people manage life transitions, grief, trauma, addiction, parenting pressures, and issues related to intimacy and self-esteem. She holds BACP accreditation, which indicates adherence to recognised professional counselling standards and ethical practice.

Nicola completed her initial training in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy - a hands-on method that focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviours - and she also draws on other therapeutic models to tailor work to each person. She pays particular attention to attachment and intimacy concerns, including abandonment and trust difficulties, and has additional focus on ADHD, autism and Asperger syndrome, sexual diversity and kink culture, blended family dynamics, and caregiver stress.

In couples work Nicola helps partners untangle repeated patterns, improve communication, and reconnect after conflict. She uses step-by-step strategies for emotional regulation, clearer communication, and practical relationship repair, aiming to address the needs of everyone involved and to promote healthier ways of relating.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Support

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on identifying patterns of thinking and behaviour that contribute to distress and teaching practical skills to change them. It is often used for anxiety, depression, stress management, sleep and eating concerns, and many day-to-day coping challenges.

Attachment-Based Therapy explores how early relationship experiences shape current patterns in close relationships and intimacy. This approach can be useful for people dealing with abandonment, trust issues, relationship repeating patterns, and difficulties forming secure bonds.

Finding the right therapeutic approach is part of the work. Nicola collaborates with clients to determine which methods fit their needs, goals, and personal preferences, and adapts sessions as understanding grows so the plan evolves with the client.

Online therapy offers flexible ways to access care through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy lives, support people in different locations, and allow clients to choose the communication style that feels most helpful while working with licensed professionals and therapists to make steady progress.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Nicola Murray have?

Nicola Murray has six years of experience.

Is Nicola Murray a licensed therapist?

Yes. Nicola holds BACP accreditation, indicating adherence to professional counselling standards.

In which languages does Nicola Murray provide therapy?

Nicola provides therapy in English.

Where is Nicola Murray located?

Nicola is located in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with Nicola Murray as my therapist?

You can work with Nicola Murray through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Nicola Murray work with international clients?

Yes, Nicola Murray works with international clients.

How much does therapy with Nicola Murray cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesADHD

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Licensed

See below

Languages

English

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