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Michael Wilkes-Spellman

NCPS

Michael Wilkes-Spellman , NCPS

Therapist in United Kingdom

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About Michael

Michael Wilkes-Spellman is an accredited member of the National Counselling Society, holding the NCPS credential which signifies recognised professional accreditation in counselling. He trained in 2011 and has continued to develop his skills across a range of wellbeing topics since completing his initial training. Working part time, he offers appointments on weekday evenings to fit around many clients' schedules.

He practices with an integrated approach, tailoring support to each person's needs while drawing principally on person-centred and cognitive behavioural methods. His work emphasises understanding an individual's unique experience of distress, exploring patterns that maintain difficulties, and where appropriate addressing unhelpful thoughts and behaviours. Michael enjoys supporting adults, couples, and older adults through a wide variety of life challenges including relationship issues, grief, anxiety, trauma, career concerns, and changes associated with ageing and family transitions.

Known for a collaborative and adaptable style, he combines empathic listening with practical strategies to help clients make sense of their experiences and move toward clearer goals. His background in both person-centred and cognitive behavioural approaches allows him to respond flexibly to different presenting concerns while maintaining a focus on the client's priorities and pace.

Approaches and online therapy options for flexible care

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on treating each person as the expert on their own life, offering empathic listening and acceptance to help people explore feelings and values and build self-directed change. This approach is useful for individuals and couples facing relationship challenges, life transitions, grief, or the need for a supportive space to process difficult emotions.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) helps people identify and test unhelpful thoughts and behaviours, and develop practical strategies to reduce symptoms of anxiety, depression, and stress. It often includes goal-setting and skill building to address recurring patterns that interfere with daily life.

Mindfulness Therapy offers simple practices to increase present-moment awareness and reduce reactivity, supporting coping with stress, anxiety, and ongoing emotional distress. When appropriate, Michael integrates mindful techniques alongside person-centred and cognitive behavioural work to suit individual needs.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process and will be decided collaboratively. The therapist works with clients to understand their goals, preferences, and practical circumstances, then adapts methods and pacing so the work feels useful and manageable.

Online therapy provides practical flexibility - sessions can take place by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging - allowing people to fit therapy around work, family, or mobility needs. These options make it easier to access licensed professionals and therapists from home or elsewhere, maintaining continuity of care while accommodating different communication preferences.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Michael Wilkes-Spellman have?

He has 13 years of experience.

Is Michael Wilkes-Spellman a licensed therapist?

Yes, he holds the credential NCPS (accredited member of the National Counselling Society). License details: .

In which languages does Michael Wilkes-Spellman provide therapy?

He provides therapy in English.

Where is Michael Wilkes-Spellman located?

He is based in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with Michael Wilkes-Spellman as my therapist?

You can work with Michael Wilkes-Spellman through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Michael Wilkes-Spellman work with international clients?

Michael Wilkes-Spellman does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Michael Wilkes-Spellman cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, just click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Just click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issues

Also works with

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

13+ years

Licensed

See below

Languages

English

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