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Kristian Skillman

LMFT

Kristian Skillman , LMFT

Therapist in California

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About Kristian

Kristian Skillman is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with more than 15 years of experience helping individuals and families navigate difficult life moments and strengthen important relationships. She creates a warm, supportive therapeutic environment where people can feel genuinely heard and understood while they explore issues such as anxiety, stress, grief, parenting challenges, depression, and the effects of past trauma. Kristian draws on evidence-based interventions to guide clients toward clarity and sustainable change, tailoring her approach to each person or family she works with.

Her practice focuses on restoring connection - whether that means improving communication between partners, processing loss, managing the emotional impact of separation and divorce, or rebuilding a sense of self after trauma. As an LMFT, she brings training in working with family systems and relationships and applies that perspective to help clients resolve patterns that affect their daily lives. Kristian aims to empower people to reconnect with themselves and with others, fostering practical skills and insights that support long-term wellbeing.

Throughout her career she has supported clients facing complex emotions like guilt, shame, loneliness, and questions of life purpose, always emphasizing collaboration and respect for each person s goals and values.

Evidence-Based Approaches and Online Support

Kristian uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques tailored to the needs presented in therapy. She provides trauma-informed work that helps people process past harm and reduce the ways traumatic experiences interfere with daily life. She also offers skills-focused interventions for stress and anxiety that teach practical tools for managing overwhelming thoughts and physical tension. In addition, Kristian integrates a relational or systems-oriented perspective to address communication patterns and family dynamics that affect emotional wellbeing.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic journey, and Kristian treats that choice as a collaborative process. She partners with clients to identify goals, evaluates which techniques fit best, and adjusts the plan over time so the work aligns with the client s needs, preferences, and pace.

Online therapy with Kristian is offered through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, giving clients flexibility to engage in care from different settings. These options make it easier to schedule sessions around work, family, and other commitments, and support consistent access to a licensed professional when in-person visits are not feasible.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Kristian Skillman have?

Kristian Skillman has 15 years of experience.

Is Kristian Skillman a licensed therapist?

Yes. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, credentialed as LMFT. Her license is listed as CA LMFT 96592.

In which languages does Kristian Skillman provide therapy?

Kristian provides therapy in English.

Where is Kristian Skillman located?

Kristian is located in California.

How can I work with Kristian Skillman as my therapist?

You can work with Kristian through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Kristian Skillman work with international clients?

Kristian Skillman does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Kristian Skillman cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist s availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyTrauma and abuseGriefParenting issuesDepression

Additional focus areas

Divorce and separationForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposePost-traumatic stressSelf-love

Experience

15+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English

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