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Elly Oka

BACP

Elly Oka , BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

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About Elly

Elly Oka is a UK-qualified therapist who brings five years of focused clinical experience to her work. She supports adults facing stress and anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, as well as those navigating career challenges, low self-esteem and bereavement. Elly approaches each client with the belief that people are the experts of their own lives and that existing strengths can be used to move through difficult moments toward a more fulfilling life.

Her style centers on collaboration and respect, helping clients explore personal values, process loss, and build practical strategies to manage day-to-day difficulties. She values the courage it takes to seek help and aims to create a supportive therapeutic relationship that honors each personâs story while offering clear, compassionate guidance.

Elly holds the BACP credential - membership in the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy - which reflects recognised professional training and adherence to practice standards in the UK. She offers an accessible, strength-based approach aimed at helping clients make meaningful changes at their own pace and in ways that fit their circumstances.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Support

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps clients clarify personal values and commit to meaningful actions even when difficult thoughts or feelings arise. It is often useful for anxiety, stress, and navigating life transitions by building psychological flexibility.

Attachment-Based Therapy explores patterns formed in early relationships and how they influence current connections and emotional responses. This approach can be helpful for relationship difficulties, grief, and issues tied to attachment needs.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying and adjusting unhelpful thinking and behaviour patterns. It offers practical techniques for managing symptoms of depression, anxiety, and low self-esteem.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process and Elly works collaboratively with clients to identify which methods best match their needs, goals and personal preferences. She combines elements from different approaches as appropriate to create a tailored plan.

Online therapy with licensed professionals offers flexibility in how sessions are arranged and attended. Clients can choose video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging to fit their schedules and comfort levels. This accessibility makes it easier for people to maintain consistent care while balancing work, family and other commitments.

Frequently asked questions

How much experience does Elly Oka have?

Elly Oka has 5 years of professional experience working with adults on a range of issues including stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and bereavement.

Is Elly Oka a licensed therapist?

Yes. Elly Oka holds the BACP credential. BACP denotes membership in the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, a recognised professional body for counselling and psychotherapy in the United Kingdom.

In which languages does Elly Oka provide therapy?

Elly Oka provides therapy in English.

Where is Elly Oka located?

Elly Oka is based in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with Elly Oka as my therapist?

Clients can work with Elly Oka through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Elly Oka work with international clients?

Yes, Elly Oka works with international clients.

How much does therapy with Elly Oka cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as the clientâs location and the therapistâs availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, clients can click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Clients can click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match them with their therapist. Depending on availability, clients can then schedule their first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesGriefSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHearing impairedHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Solution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

5+ years

Licensed

See below

Languages

English

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